Thigh job

A thigh job is a sexual act where a person’s genitals are stimulated by the thighs of their partner, explains clinical sex therapist Christopher Ryan Jones, PsyD.

Thigh jobs are also sometimes referred khổng lồ as femoral intercourse (presumably named as such for the femoral artery in your thigh—hi, femur) or intercural sex.

Ironically, a thigh job is actually considered “outercourse,” as it’s sans vaginal or anal penetration, explains physician and health expert Nesochi Okeke-Igbokwe, MD. “Those engaging in this sexual act typically deem it khổng lồ be a safer, low-risk, yet still enjoyable alternative sầu khổng lồ penetrative sầu sex,” she adds.

While a thigh job conventionally refers lớn a penis being stimulated between thighs, you could also have sầu a thigh job where a vagina-haver’s clitoris is stimulated by thighs as well. (See also: dry humping.) It’s just that for some reason, though, we tend khổng lồ equate any sex act ending with “job” with penises. Sexism, TBH.

How To

Start by rubbing your thighs against your partner’s genitals as fotrả lời, says Jones. Once erect, you can place their penis between your thighs và move sầu in motions similar to lớn intercourse, moving along the entirety of their shaft until orgasm. Just be careful not khổng lồ clamp down on your boo’s testicles, which is a possibility given some of the positioning, Jones adds. It’s basically titty f*cking but with your thighs!

One important note: Lube is gonna be your MVPhường during a thigh job. “Your thighs vì chưng not naturally lubricate themselves, so you’ll need a little help,” explains sex expert Myi Baker, founder of Lady Luxxe cộ and host of sex-ed podcast Quickies With Myi. You’ll want to use a long-lasting lube lượt thích silicone or oil based (coconut oil is great here) to prevent friction or heat rashes with skin rubbing against skin.

One cool thing about the ol’ TJ though: Because it’s not your vagina, you can experiment with a lot more in the lube department here than you normally can. While flavored lubes and sex gels might cause your pH khổng lồ get knocked out of whachồng, your thigh skin is pretty sturdy, so you can experiment with stuff you’d normally skip. Lube with a warming or cooling sensation will add more feels into lớn the mix, và slippery foods like syrups or whipped cream can be worth trying here as well, adds Baker. Just make sure you bởi vì not double-dip và go into vaginal penetration without showering afterward if you vì chưng break out the food.


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VariationsCowgirl thigh job: Straddle your partner while they’re seated or lying down and keep your legs closed while you bounce up & down —kinda like a lap dance. This posish is perfect for making out or steamy eye tương tác.

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Reverse-cowgirl thigh job: the same as the above sầu but facing away. Great for showing off your backside và gives your partner the chance to hold your hips & come in for an assist when you get tired.

Spooning thigh job: Your partner enters from behind while you’re both lying on your sides.

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Missionary thigh job: missionary but with you or your partner humping or grinding lớn stimulate their penis.

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Doggy thigh job: Get on your stomach with a pillow under your hips & have your partner enter your thighs from behind. This variation offers you the bonus of reaching around & being able lớn stroke your partner’s penis while he thrusts, explains Baker.

Standing thigh job: Depending on your heights, your partner might be able khổng lồ stand and thrust between your thighs, says Jones. If you wanna take a break or have your partner take the controls for a bit, this is a great way to lớn switch it up.


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