5 ways to help shy girls open up

1. Just because she"s shy doesn"t mean she"s not confident. Please don"t mistake being shy for not being self-assured. She"s confident in who she is and knows what she wants, even if she may not always appear that way. Chances are, she"s always trying her best lớn radiate a more #boss-like persomãng cầu, but in the meantime, CAN SHE LIVE?!

2. She"s independent.

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She"s never been the type of person who *needs* to be in a relationship, or even someone lớn go to dinner with. She"s perfectly content on her own, thxvm. She knows what she wants in life & she"s determined to make it happen. She isn"t going to lớn waste time in a relationship with someone who isn"t as independent as she is.

3. She actually needs to be by herself occasionally. Maybe it"s reading a book, maybe it"s listening to lớn her favorite album in its entirety. Whatever it is, that time is sacred & it recharges her soul, so don"t question it.

4. It can be challenging for her khổng lồ open up to lớn people. So, if she is telling you about her family, her goals in life, or anything that"s super important khổng lồ her, it"s because she trusts you.

5. You want lớn introduce her khổng lồ friends và family? Great! Please plan a small gathering as opposed khổng lồ a huge các buổi tiệc nhỏ where trăng tròn strangers will desckết thúc on her at once & freak her out.

6. No, she doesn"t dislượt thích your friends và family. She simply hasn"t had enough time to get to lớn know them yet.

7. Being the center of attention is basically her worst nightmare. Karaoke in front of a billion people? Yeah, no.

8. How to lớn gracefully accept a compliment is probably a thing she has yet to lớn master. "Oh, you like my hair?! Thanks! It"s actually the worst, I don"t know why I wore it lượt thích this. But yeah, I lượt thích your, um, face. I mean, your hair is great too, super good. OK, bye."

9. She"s an incredible listener. Seriously, the best of the best. Shy girls listen — lượt thích, really listen — to lớn each và every one of your thoughts with the most discerning ear. She"ll add her own two cents, but she"ll also always let you finish what you want lớn say.

10. Surprise! She enjoys parties. First of all, the more people, the less of a chance there is that all the attention will be on her. Secondly, being shy doesn"t mean she hates meeting new people! It just takes her a little longer to come out of her shell. If she isn"t speaking too much at first, it"s not because she"s disinterested. She"s surveying the scene and taking it all in. She"ll chime in to the conversation eventually.

11. She"s obsessed with outgoing people. No, really! Many of her friends are the ~life of the party~ and she loves them for it. They reminder her that it"s OK to loosen up once in awhile.

12. Stop asking her if she"s mad.

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She"s not mad!

13. Don"t Hotline her out for not being able to make eye tương tác. Making solid eye contact is a legitimately difficult thing lớn vị when you"re shy! She gets anxiety just thinking about it.



14. She"s probably not looking for a shy guy. Realistically speaking, the two of you wouldn"t be able to lớn look each other in the eye & everything would be a hot mess. Besides, opposites attract, etc., etc.

15. She"s selfless. She"s not the type of person who craves attention. She finds joy in other people"s happiness, và she expects the person she dates khổng lồ bởi vì the same.

16. Don"t assume she"s socially awkward or inept. She just mixes all the words up when she speaks because meeting new people is exhausting, OK?! There"s a difference.

17. She"s totally game khổng lồ try new things. She might not be the first person khổng lồ come up to lớn you at a buổi tiệc ngọt, but she"s daring, adventurous, và an even (gasp!) outgoing once you get lớn know her.

18. Yes, it"s going khổng lồ take some time khổng lồ get to know her.

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But it is totally worth the effort.

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