Power Bottom Definition
Power nguồn bottom is a term that gets thrown around a lot by people in our community, yet few truly understvà what this phrase really means. Well, I’m here khổng lồ give sầu you the definition so that you have sầu the lingo right.
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In case you are wondering, I am a power bottom và have been one for most of my sexual life. The first time I got pounded was when I was 18 years old, in the baông xã of an abandoned van. Now at 38, I’ve sầu been one ever since.
I’m going khổng lồ give sầu you the definition of a power bottom first. Then, I’ll touch upon several of the stereotypes connected with this term. Finally, I’ll walk you through several truths and misnomers.
Are you ready? Let’s jump right in!
What is a Power Bottom?
If you are a true power bottom, you are gay man who has a huge appetite for being penetrated by another guy (or guys). You can last for extended periods of time without having to take breaks.
Power bottoms tkết thúc to lớn last longer in the sack when the top is confident during intense jack-hammering (read between the lines). Power nguồn bottoms are ready lớn take it day or night và commonly like to skip a lot of fotrả lời and get right down lớn business.
Power Bottom Myths
Let’s first dispense with some of the common myths that are often associated with being a power bottom. While I can’t list them all, here are some of the biggies.
Power bottoms are:
EffeminateSelfishMeth addictUnable khổng lồ feel painTotally submissiveSluttyEffeminate
A lot of people see lớn think that guys lượt thích me who power bottom are “queens” or “big girls”. That’s totally false. I would argue that guys who mostly or exclusively bottom are perhaps some of the most masculine guys on the planet. This myth can be traced lớn harmful stereotypes about gay men – pure và simple.
Selfish
I’ve had friends say that power bottoms are bigtime selfish whores. This one is BS too. That’s because being a power bottom isn’t so much about the activity but instead, about the mindmix.
Just because we like lớn bend over doesn’t mean we can’t or won’t top. It does mean that we prefer lớn riding a guy & doing so for long periods of time.
Pain
Perhaps the worst stereotype associated with this bit of lingo relates to lớn physical pain. For some stupid reason, a lot of gay tops have sầu it in their mind that power bottoms don’t feel pain.
I’m here to lớn tell you that’s total B.S. because we bởi. It DOES hurt if you just jam it in or suddenly yank it out. Nothing pisses me off more than a top thinking he can bởi whatever he wants to lớn me because the guy thinks I’m impervious lớn pain, you know?
And hate to lớn break it to lớn you but not all of us are hooked on crystal meth, causing us lớn get “timãng cầu d*ck”. I don’t know if that myth came from videos or an urban legover but it’s crap.
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Submissive
Containing on with the stereotypes, power bottoms can be submissive but that doesn’t mean they are totally submissive. Sure, I suppose if you hypnotize one of us, we could turn inkhổng lồ some freakish zombie bottom but in the real world, that’s not been my experience.
Slutty
Finally, not all guys like me who are power bottoms are slutty. I hate when gay men think this but apparently, many vì. Remember, it’s not about the number of guys we can take but instead, our ability to be ready and last for the long term.
To be this type of bottom, it means you have sầu personal POWER. Here, I am talking about a high degree of self-esteem & self-worth. Not the other way around.
nguồn Bottom Truths
As mentioned earlier, a gay man who identifies as a power bottom has adopted a mindmix. This way of thinking takes years lớn develop and has nothing to do with the top’s kích cỡ or girth.
Instead, it’s about the pounders ability to lớn jump into action at a moment’s notice, allowing someone like me to lớn be equally ready.
This means we’ve educated ourselves about digestive health, allowing us to lớn do our thing without worry.
Related: Gay bottom diet và digestive health
On a related note, a true – and I mean absolutely true power bottom knows all about the things that turn off guys who are tops. One of the big ones is never making the mistake of referring khổng lồ our man holes with effeminate terms.
Another one is understanding the importance of thorough douching!
Bottoming Doesn"t = Power nguồn Bottom
What really pisses me off is running into guys on hookup apps lượt thích Grindr and Scruff who claim they are power bottoms when they simply aren’t.
Just because you rode a guy for đôi mươi minutes doesn’t entitle you khổng lồ clalặng the label. And so what if you can sit on a giant toy! That doesn’t mean you are one either!
So gay men everywhere, please, for the love sầu of all that is good, please stop calling yourself a power bottom when you aren’t.
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This is a very special title should be reserved for gay men who have sầu put in years of effort while educating themselves on how lớn be masters of their craft.
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